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IMAGE Middletown Library - November 2014 – New Events for Adults and Teens
Friday, 24 October 2014
MIDDLETOWN, NJ - Middletown Township Public Library, 55 New Monmouth Road, Middletown NJ, will host the following events for adults and teens... Read More...
2nd Annual Wine Tasting Benefit for Red Bank Library
Friday, 24 October 2014
RED BANK, NJ - The Foundation for the Red Bank Public Library is holding its 2nd annual wine tasting benefit on November 11, 2014 from 7:00 pm... Read More...
Sermon: The Promise
Friday, 24 October 2014
ATLANTIC  HIGHLANDS ---The Rev. Paul F. Rack will preach on placing our trust in the fulfillment of God's promise of redemption, equality... Read More...
IMAGE Keansburg Hosts Zombies & Comic Character Walk
Friday, 24 October 2014
Saturday, November 1 starting at 5 p.m. KEANSBURG, NJ - Everyone is invited to dress up and join the Halloween fun including two haunted houses. The... Read More...
Monmouth County Chamber Spooky Halloween Business Networking Party
Friday, 24 October 2014
Belford, NJ - Join the Monmouth County Chamber of Commerce for its Annual Halloween Party on Wednesday, October 29, from 6pm to 8pm at the Kedz... Read More...

Columns

IMAGE Remembering Hans Holzer’s Paranormal Investigations in NJ (Part II)
by Dennis
Friday, 24 October 2014
As was revealed in the previous article, the late Dr. Hans Holzer, famed pioneer of psychical research, helped put Port Monmouth’s Spy House on the... Read More...
IMAGE The Fountain of Youth
by Anne Mikolay
Thursday, 23 October 2014
On October 20th, actress Renee Zellweger arrived at the 2014 Elle Women in Hollywood awards with a new face. As a result of very obvious plastic... Read More...
IMAGE Review - The Skeleton Twins
by David Prown
Sunday, 19 October 2014
Recently a good friend shared that she was very amped up to see the new movie "The Skeleton Twins" playing at the Bow Tie in Red Bank. She is a big... Read More...
IMAGE Halloween Special Feature: Remembering Hans Holzer’s Paranormal Investigations in NJ (Part I)
by Dennis
Sunday, 19 October 2014
When it came to ghosts, ghouls, and stories from beyond the grave, few spoke as authoritatively as the late Dr. Hans Holzer. The Austrian-born... Read More...
IMAGE Who Put a Silver Bracelet on a Bird?
by Joe Reynolds
Saturday, 18 October 2014
As autumn progresses around New York Harbor (including the lower reaches of Sandy Hook Bay and Raritan Bay), royalty has returned to our sandy... Read More...

Upcoming Events

Sat Oct 25 @ 5:00AM - 08:00PM
Halloween Hullabaloo - Middletown
Sat Oct 25 @10:00AM - 11:30AM
Chess Club Meets - AH Library
Tue Oct 28 @ 7:00PM -
MT Town Hall Meeting - Economic Development
Wed Oct 29 @ 9:30AM - 10:00AM
Baby Story Time Ages 10 – 24 months
Wed Oct 29 @10:30AM - 10:50AM
Toddler Story Time Ages 2 & 3

danvance_120"People look at you sometimes like you're crazy," said 40-year-old Mara Mittelman of Carney's Point, New Jersey, in a telephone interview. "But I've always been honest about having fibromyalgia. I just want people to know that (people with it) aren't crazy and it's a real condition."

A National Institutes of Health website defines fibromyalgia as a "common and chronic disorder" involving widespread soft tissue pain and tenderness. It can also cause fatigue, cognitive and memory problems, headaches, and sensitivity to noise, lights, and temperature. People with fibromyalgia often are accused of making up symptoms or told their symptoms are in their head. But the condition is real and in some people meets the criteria for a disability. It affects five million Americans over 18, mostly women.

Said Mittelman, "In 1998, I was a medical assistant and my shoulders were killing me. I was constantly having to lie down at lunch to relax my back. I couldn't figure out why everything hurt all the time. I saw a neurosurgeon because of the pain, and he said four of my vertebrae were compressing, and two were dangerous. I ended up having a cervical fusion."

Months later, she was regressing in terms of pain, but this time of a different type. At age 25, she no longer had any energy and her entire body hurt. In August 1998, a doctor diagnosed fibromyalgia. Her symptoms would improve slightly over time to where in 2008 she was able to complete her associate's degree.

Even so, fibromyalgia still affects her. "For example, I worked in the garden the other day and am still in pain. When choosing an activity, I have to consider I might be in pain (for days). So I have to ask myself whether doing an activity is worth it."

Mittelman now works as a part-time apartment complex leasing agent. She can't return to her job as a medical assistant because the stress experienced there triggers severe fibromyalgia-related flareups even while taking medication. To cope with flareups, which can last a week, she prays, talks herself through tough stretches, reads, and crochets.

She said, "If somebody told me they had a cure for fibromyalgia, I would be first in line. By the same token, because of it I am the person I am today. It has made me stronger because I have had to fight through it."

Contact: danieljvance.com [Blue Valley Sod and Palmer Bus Service make this column possible.]