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IMAGE Avon Man Facing Charges for Heroin Overdose of Rumson Resident
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
Strict Liability Case Places Blame on Drug Dealer for Heroin Overdose Death FREEHOLD, NJ - An Avon-by-the-Sea man will be prosecuted under the... Read More...
Northern Monmouth Chamber of Commerce Announces its Name Change
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
MIDDLETOWN, NJ - The Northern Monmouth Chamber of Commerce is pleased to announce the changing of their name to the Monmouth County Chamber of... Read More...
IMAGE RBR Senior Spends Her Summer Vacation in the Service of Red Bank’s Oral History Project
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
PHOTO: RBR Senior and Red Bank resident Kayla Williams is pictured on the main street in her hometown where she is currently working on an oral... Read More...
Drive Sober or Get Pulled Over in Atlantic Highlands
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
ATLANTIC HIGHLANDS, NJ - Chief Jerry Vasto reports the Atlantic Highlands Police Department has received a $ 5000.00 grant which was awarded by the... Read More...
IMAGE The Community YMCA Expands Programs to Offer a Fresh Start to Good Health
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
Photo: Red Bank Health & Wellness member Michelle Battista stays healthy and strong at the Y. Red Bank, NJ – The Community YMCA is... Read More...

Columns

IMAGE Sinsations or Sonsations
by George Hancock-Stefan
Tuesday, 26 August 2014
Driving on Route 36, towards the Parkway, on the right side of the road, one sees the advertisement for a new club called Sinsations. One has to... Read More...
IMAGE Weird Looking Night Heron Offspring
by Joe Reynolds
Monday, 25 August 2014
Just before dusk, a stout, short-necked, and smoky colored bird glided past me and into the tidal wetlands near Raritan Bay. “What do we have... Read More...
IMAGE Multiple Sclerosis Becomes Counselor's Asset
by Daniel J. Vance
Sunday, 24 August 2014
During most of the '70s, Kathe Skinner, now a 65-year-old licensed marriage family therapist in Colorado Springs, Colorado, couldn't figure out what... Read More...
IMAGE Review - 100 Foot Journey
by David Prown
Sunday, 24 August 2014
I am quite sure I never saw a preview for the new movie "100 Foot Journey". However any movie starring Helen Mirren always gets my attention and a... Read More...
IMAGE Racial Unrest, Then and Now
by Woody Zimmerman
Friday, 22 August 2014
In the fall of 1957, while walking my newspaper-route, I read about the drama playing out at Central High School in Little Rock, Arkansas. Following... Read More...

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danvance_120"People look at you sometimes like you're crazy," said 40-year-old Mara Mittelman of Carney's Point, New Jersey, in a telephone interview. "But I've always been honest about having fibromyalgia. I just want people to know that (people with it) aren't crazy and it's a real condition."

A National Institutes of Health website defines fibromyalgia as a "common and chronic disorder" involving widespread soft tissue pain and tenderness. It can also cause fatigue, cognitive and memory problems, headaches, and sensitivity to noise, lights, and temperature. People with fibromyalgia often are accused of making up symptoms or told their symptoms are in their head. But the condition is real and in some people meets the criteria for a disability. It affects five million Americans over 18, mostly women.

Said Mittelman, "In 1998, I was a medical assistant and my shoulders were killing me. I was constantly having to lie down at lunch to relax my back. I couldn't figure out why everything hurt all the time. I saw a neurosurgeon because of the pain, and he said four of my vertebrae were compressing, and two were dangerous. I ended up having a cervical fusion."

Months later, she was regressing in terms of pain, but this time of a different type. At age 25, she no longer had any energy and her entire body hurt. In August 1998, a doctor diagnosed fibromyalgia. Her symptoms would improve slightly over time to where in 2008 she was able to complete her associate's degree.

Even so, fibromyalgia still affects her. "For example, I worked in the garden the other day and am still in pain. When choosing an activity, I have to consider I might be in pain (for days). So I have to ask myself whether doing an activity is worth it."

Mittelman now works as a part-time apartment complex leasing agent. She can't return to her job as a medical assistant because the stress experienced there triggers severe fibromyalgia-related flareups even while taking medication. To cope with flareups, which can last a week, she prays, talks herself through tough stretches, reads, and crochets.

She said, "If somebody told me they had a cure for fibromyalgia, I would be first in line. By the same token, because of it I am the person I am today. It has made me stronger because I have had to fight through it."

Contact: danieljvance.com [Blue Valley Sod and Palmer Bus Service make this column possible.]